It’s concerning how there’s this widely held belief that women will only metamorphose into someone great only if they ended up with certain men. I wonder how people got that idea. So it’s only if you marry a politician or a sportsman that you have made it. You can’t make it with any other man?
The same was said about Michelle Obama. If she didn’t marry him she wouldn’t have become First Lady. Is it that women don’t play any roles in what men become?
The other side is how women are always expected to manage and tolerate penury. Comments like build your man are the order of the day. How about building your woman? Women are always expected to be understanding. Are men that understanding?
Will a man be understanding in a marriage when he has to manage as well? I don’t support exorbitant bride prices and marriage rites but it doesn’t mean that some effort shouldn’t be put in.
While you are there referring to women as gold diggers and wanting already made men other men who are ready are still marrying these women.
Men ready to marry are not complaining. They get to work, even the menfolk also want already made women with jobs and businesses to support.
The national anthem is I don’t want a financial liability as a wife, while the chorus is about what is she bringing to the table.
You know people accuse women of loving wedding ceremonies. The fact is that both men and women love these ceremonies but just for different reasons.
Women want to show off their pictures and their gown etc, to be the talk of the town.
Most Men want it because of the money. You can all be shocked but that’s the reality no one wants to speak about.
They’ll even borrow to make these ceremonies happen and the in thing is to hire an M.C who can raise enough money. Every step the couple will take will require a certain amount of money to be dropped and it’ll stretch the ceremony that will probably kick off late.
Women are always to understand and manage when the man has little but once he makes it those things will be forgotten and most often than not she’ll be relegated to the background.
Believe it or not, everyone has an atom of greatness in them. They just fail to utilize it and discover who they are.
The man is important to the woman and the woman is important to the man. They both play roles.
Let’s stop this mentality of I’m doing you a favor by marrying you. If I didn’t marry you you would have been in your father’s house. Who told you that? Are you the only man?
Even if the woman Is from a rich home she’s not doing the man a favor. They both need each other to become a family. They are a team. All these doing you a favor speeches should be expunged.
It’s not doing anyone any good. Our lives are in God’s hands he decides all things
Let’s stop acting like it’s by our power or our might. A person destined for greatness must not achieve it with just one specific person.
If someone will not marry you because you are starting in life, marry someone who will and stop wishing those people evil luck.
The next time we see them they must not be poor and wretched. We are all entitled to our choices…
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