Are You An Endangered Specie?

The goal in any relationship is to be close and still maintain an identity as a separate person with Individual ideas, goals, dreams, hobbies,  identity, opinions, and beliefs.⠀

You become an endangered specie once you start looking down on your own uniqueness and dreams, feeling inferior and feeling more comfortable adopting those of someone else, considering them superior. ⠀

Giving up too much of yourself to please someone else makes you an endangered specie. ⠀Conforming to the personal goals of someone else can make you an endangered specie. ⠀

Everyone has their own distinct identity and personality. ⠀

Personal growth is as important as personal goals and dreams. Having your individual opinion on an issue is extremely important and always discarding your own opinion and adopting the opinion of someone else on every issue makes you an endangered specie. ⠀

To avoid becoming an endangered specie have your own realistic goals and maintain your unique identity. ⠀

In reality, comfort zones are really not about comfort but fear.

Have your own opinions on issues, think for yourself, and don’t be afraid to have your own ideas. Embrace your personality.⠀

Any relationship where one person grows while the other diminishes makes the diminishing party an endangered specie. ⠀

Maintain your distinct identity, because people are happier when they are themselves and not resembling someone that’s an endangered specie…⠀